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hey if you @ me to disagree with me, we’re going to end up not being friends
i hate getting negative notifications and i’ll usually either mute or, worse, argue
so just delete the draft, subtoot or swallow it because it will end badly
pintroduction Show more
trans, androgynous, queer
my posts are generally follower-only
happy to make new friends =)
follow for/talk to me about: Show more
personal blogging (often mh related)
socially awkward but well-meaning replies
motorsports (grand prix 2 wheels or 4)
plants (at least when i start a garden next year)
my native yorkshire
anything wholesome and kind =)
I dunno if it's just me but it seems like image descriptions here are at a low ebb again.
When I click on an image that's integral to the point you're making and you haven't told me what it is, that makes me feel like I've just seen everyone else walk through a door that gets slammed in my face.
I'm not mad I'm just tired.
personal, ableism (-) Show more
like making things about The Tragedy Of Autism isn't showing us you're empathy for us? it's the opposite actually? the world doesn't need one more documentary on how awful it is to parent autistic kids OR how autistic kids are pure soul angels? if allistics want to rush to show support and compassion they can do it by stepping aside and letting the autistic people talk?????
request for advice, technology career, disability Show more
my wife is a freelance developer who is highly skilled in unity, C#, python, django. due to disability, she has been struggling with the demands of her corporate contracts and would like to offer her skills on a remote-only basis to conserve spoons. we’re wondering what kind of pay cut we’d have to offer to get the necessary concessions.
is anyone in a similar situation who would care to dm me their day rate or any advice? (pls boost)
ableism (-) Show more
stay away from me if you think low-empathy people are evil challenge
transphobia - Show more
cis women: the patriarchal standards women are held to in order to be considered valid women are impossibly high
also cis women: how am I meant to believe you're a women when you dont wear full makeup, dresses, high heels, and speak in an acceptably passive high-pitched voice at all times?
ALSO cis women: you know being female isnt about wearing makeup, dresses, high heels, and speaking in a passive high pitched voice right? Stop reinforcing stereotypes
social anxiety shitpost Show more
being bad at socializing is kinda like being bad at fighting games
you don't know how to approach, everyone seems to play better than you can and refuses to explain how, you're constantly being blocked,
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