I figured that, what with the panini, it might be worth getting on dating apps just to get see what things are like, even if it'll probably be a while before I even could get involved again.

It's very interesting what changes in perspective you get dating as a man vs as a woman.

As a queer man you had to constantly pursue, ask questions, force folks to talk to you.

As a queer woman you have to constantly pursue, ask questions, force folks to talk to you.